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The signs that a woman is likely to end up single, and lonely

 Stay away from these types!! 1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement” 2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables. 3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids 4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed. 5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls. 6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer” 7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her. 8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling. 9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles 10. Her job involves a lot of travelling. 11. She can easily find a parking sp

Boy Arrested While Attempting To Sell His Mum’s Car Without Her Consent

A 25-year-old boy identified as Samuel Owolabi has been arrested by the Lagos State Police Command while attempting to see his mother's car without her knowledge and consent.  Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Benjamin Hundeyin confirmed this on Tuesday.  He said Owolabi was arrested where he brought his mother’s car to sell without her consent.   According to him, the boy's mother has been contacted to come and pick her car, adding that the mother was shocked to hear about the incident. Samuel Owolabi A 25-year-old boy identified as Samuel Owolabi has been arrested by the Lagos State Police Command while attempting to see his mother’s car without her knowledge and consent. Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Benjamin Hundeyin confirmed this on Tuesday. He said Owolabi was arrested where he brought his mother’s car to sell without her consent. According to him, the boy’s mother has been contacted to come and pick her car, adding that the

5 Ugly Truths about Life

The following list may not be all that pleasant, but I hope it’ll still serve you well. 1. You’re Going to Die For a moment, I wasn’t sure whether I should put this on top of the list. Is it too obvious? Is it too harsh? In the end, I decided we don’t talk about death enough. Until personal grief strikes, it’s easier to pretend we and our loved ones (and even our pets) are immortal. 2. You’ll Never Reach Perfection Day in and day out, life coaches and happiness gurus tell us we need to strive for something greater than we are. We’re encouraged to chase after better things than we have. 3. You Can’t Separate Failure From Success When we set a goal, we do everything in our power to succeed. Failure terrifies us, even if we won’t admit it. 4. You’re Not Morally Superior to Others You’ve probably (secretly) thought you’re more principled than your friend, more honest than your partner, or fairer than your boss, but is that true? Studies consistently find that people thin

Give yourself an edge with these gems of sage advice that most people need

1. Take time to know yourself. "Know thyself" said Aristotle. When you know who you are, you can be wise about your goals, your dreams, your standards, your convictions. Knowing who you are allows you to live your life with purpose and meaning. 2. A narrow focus brings big results. The number one reason people give up so fast is because they tend to look at how far they still have to go instead of how far they have come. But it's a series of small wins that can give us the most significant success. 3. Show up fully. Don't dwell on the past, and don't daydream about the future, but concentrate on showing up fully in the present moment. 4. Don't make assumptions. If you don't know the situation fully, you can't offer an informed opinion. 5. Be patient and persistent. Life is not so much what you accomplish as what you overcome.  6. In order to get, you have to give. If you support, guide, and lead others, if you make contributions to their lives,

What are some of the best skills that we need to have

The ultimate goal of going to college is not just to get the degree, but to land a career as well. Obviously, employers want to make sure you are qualified for the job by having the appropriate degree, but they also need to know if you have the skill set too. The top 5 skills employers look for include: Critical thinking and problem solving Teamwork and collaboration Professionalism and strong work ethic Oral and written communications skills Leadership Skills that were once essential to jobs have become automatable, creating a space where people must develop new professional skills to stay valuable. While you might think that your job isn’t at stake, automation has found its way into nearly every industry across businesses. Nearly 47% of jobs in the US could be replaced with smart machines and automation in the coming years. Now’s the time to think about what skills and practices you can develop to ensure that your career will be safe in the future.

The number one thing every girl want from a guy in a relationship

1. Unconditional Love Like guys, girls are also flawed, and they long for unconditional love. They know they are not perfect, and sometimes, they are scared that their boyfriends would leave them for their flaws. They hope to be loved without any condition, though. No matter how they look or whatever career they have, they need someone who will love genuinely love them.   2. Security In connection to unconditional love, girls need security in a relationship. A lot of women feel insecure about themselves quickly. Whenever they think that their boyfriends are attracted to someone else, they feel that they are not attractive anymore. If you love your girlfriend, you need to help her get rid of her insecurities. Do not make her feel taken for granted just because you are surrounded by other ladies who could be better than her. Reassure her that she is the most beautiful woman in your eyes and she does not need to compete with other girls for your attention. 3. Honesty and Transparen

How to Start a Conversation With Anyone

We fear starting conversations with people because it’s like voluntarily stepping into chaos. Humans don’t like chaos. We like predictability. Maybe you could bring in some order and predictability by just mastering some simple strategies. When you learn how to start conversations, doing it becomes a more deliberate and predictable thing. You reduce the chaos and become less anxious. Wouldn’t that be great? Here are practical things you can do to be much better at starting conversations with anyone. 1. Ask for information I moved into a new town a month ago, and this strategy helps me start a conversation with almost anyone. I’ve started conversations with lines like “Where can I get a good haircut?” If the person doesn’t seem to be in a hurry, I can then proceed to ask them if they also cut their hair in the same place they’re recommending. Then they’ll probably say “Yes” and rant about how great their service is in the saloon. I then introduce myself and thank them for

What are 5 signs of fake love in a relationship

To really know that the love in your relationship is genuine or not, here are some of the signs to look out For Is the love in your relationship real, or fake? If it is, all you should do is keep growing the love, keep staying truthful to each other, keep drinking a lot of water, and just keep treating each other in all the good ways that will allow the relationship thrive further. 1. They’re emotionally distant In a relationship, fakers have a tendency to be non-communicative. They’ll provide little to no substance to what’s going on in their life. They’ll also make excuses why they “couldn’t” communicate especially when it is a little difficult to do so. The difference between them and someone with genuine love for you is the extra effort needed to reach out when it’s not so easy. 2. Always willing to throw in the towel Conflict happens in every relationship. It demonstrates a level of care which partner have for one another. That said, every conflict demands a resoluti

What are the Things every girl wants in a relationship.

  Love is something that comes naturally to us, we don’t have to work at it, but sometimes we do. When you love someone, you care about them, you want what’s best for them, and you’re happy when they’re around. You’d never let anything bad happen to them, and you’ll always stand up for them when necessary. A man who loves her unconditionally. A man who doesn’t mind being told he’s wrong, but rather accepts his mistakes and learns from them. He’s not afraid to admit he was wrong about something and apologize when he does. A man who doesn’t take things personally and isn’t quick to judge others. A man who wants to spend time with you, even if he doesn’t have anything to do. A man who makes sure you feel special and loved no matter what. A man who knows how to treat a woman right. He treats you well by taking care of you, making sure you’re comfortable, and treating you with respect. He doesn’t belittle you or put you down, and he never takes advantage of you. Treating women rig

WORDS YOU CAN USE TO MAKE A WOMAN FEEL SEXY

 Do you desire to tell a woman how sexy she is without being too obvious or repetitive? This is the article you’ve been looking for. It is true that it can be boring telling a woman she is sexy every time. Remember that time she wore that dress with the teasingly low neckline? You called her sexy. You also called her sexy on that day she wore that sexy jean and she was all shades of hot. You’ve also used the word on many other occasions. It gets tiring after a while. Women are moved by what they hear, and you need to upgrade from saying the same compliment all the time if you want that flirtation between you both to become even better. When you see that drop-dead gorgeous lady you have been crushing on, and you’ve run out of words to describe her, simply because she always find new ways to blow your mind to bits, here are extra words you can turn to. Tell her she’s enticing. Afterall her very presence draws you in effortlessly,doesn’t it? Tell her she’s captivating. It’s n

8 Easy Habits That Make You More Attractive

1. Saying “thank you” Saying “thank you” to someone has huge psychological consequences. Think back to when someone said “thank you” to you for something little you did, how did you feel? And most importantly, how did that simple gesture influence your perception of that person? As Dale Carnegie wrote in How to Win Friends and Influence People, “If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people honest appreciation.” When you thank someone — especially to someone you don’t necessarily need to, like the waiter or the doorman — first, you set yourself apart from the majority who just use their services without even looking at their face. Then you make them feel respected — a feeling they probably hardly get. Then you signal to whoever is observing that you’re the kind of person who would respect anyone no matter the level they are in. I don’t know about you, but when I com

What Happens to Your Body When You Go to Sleep at 10

Kim Kardashian, Anna Wintour, and Oprah Winfrey all have one thing in common: they all go to sleep around 10 p.m. It seems these women are on the right track, as sleeping so early can have many positive effects on our body and mind. It may not be surprising, then, that some of today’s most successful women end their day so early – to prepare for the next! After doing some research, We want to show why people get their Zs so early and why you should start thinking about it too. We Get The Most Out Of Sleep Our sleep is divided into 90-minute cycles of heavy and light sleep, from deep non-REM (rapid eye movement) sleep to REM (rapid eye movement) sleep. The deepest and most relaxing part of our sleep is between 10:00 pm. and 2 am. This means that to be fully rested, you need to start sleeping early in the cycle. Also, a study says that sleeping earlier and longer helps us interrupt negative and worrying thoughts that can keep us awake at night – another reason to hit the sac

Things You Can Do Regularly To Help You Sleep Well At Night

Sleeplessness or the inability to fall asleep in people is known medically as insomnia. If you are experiencing insomnia, it is important to realize that there are many different triggers or causes of this condition. By understanding what is causing your inability to sleep, you will be better able to manage it. We'll look at some of the practices that can improve your ability to sleep at night in this post in keeping with an NHS publication. I would advise you to read this post all the way through if you previously struggled to get to sleep at night. What Routines Can You Follow To Get A Good Night's Sleep? 1. Try going to bed and waking up at the same time every day. The body was built to literally follow the same cycle of sleep and wakefulness. If you train yourself to go to bed and wake up at specific times, eventually your body will become accustomed to it and you won't have any trouble falling asleep. 2. Unwind at least an hour before going to bed. Taking a b

The Fastest Animal In The World

The Cheetah has, for a very long time now, become one of the most popular animals in the World and the reason for this is because of its incredible speed. Cheetah are very fast and have been crowned as the fastest land animals in the World, according to Britannica. Interestingly, some people often mix this record up by saying that Cheetah is the fastest animal in the World. There are animals that are faster than the cheetah, but they are not land animals. While the cheetah is capable of attaining an average speed of about 71 miles per hour, according to Britannica, there are some animals that have beaten this speed in their own respective habitats. So, what animal is the fastest in the World? The fastest animal in the World, according to Britannica is the Peregrine Falcon, an animal that can attain a diving speed of about 200 miles per hour. This is more than 2½ times the speed of a cheetahs The Peregrine Falcon is said to be found across all the continents of the World exc

WHY MARRIAGE IS IMPORTANT

  1. IT'S SAFER. Marriage lowers the risk that both men and women will become victims of violence, including domestic violence. A 1994 Justice Department report, based on the National Crime Victimization Survey, found that single and divorced women were four to five times more likely to be victims of violence in any given year than wives; bachelors were four times more likely to be violent-crime victims than husbands. Two-thirds of acts of violence against women committed by intimate partners were not committed by husbands but by boyfriends (whether live-in or not) or former husbands or boyfriends. As one scholar sums up the relevant research: "Regardless of methodology, the studies yielded similar results: cohabitors engage in more violence than spouses." Linda Waite conducted an analysis of the National Survey of Families and Households for our new book. She found that, even after controlling for education, race, age, and gender, people who live together are s

4 Side Effects Of Smoking Marijuana Every Day

Some countries legalize the use of marijuana, while others don't. However, some people who use it legally or secretly don't know its side effects on their health. According to Healthline, marijuana has its advantages and disadvantages. It is usually among the ingredients used in making certain medications. People also use hemp seed oil for different health purposes. Some people use it for therapeutic purposes, some chew it for euphoric effects, and others smoke it either for pleasure or to relieve pain. Unfortunately, it appears as though the disadvantages far outweigh the benefits, especially for those who smoke it every day. The following are side effects of smoking marijuana every day: 1. Long-term smoking of marijuana can lower someone's intelligence measure regardless of how educated you are. This usually happens to people who started smoking as teenagers. Their IQ will drop if you compare it with people who don't smoke at all. 2. Smoking marijuana for a

Fascinating Facts You'll Want to Share with Everyone You Know

1. Victorians once used leeches to predict the weather. 2.Your funny bone is actually a nerve. 3The chief translator of the European Parliament speaks 32 languages fluently. 4The most requested funeral song in England is by Monty Python. out Frank Sinatra's "My Way." 5Research shows that all blue-eyed people may be related. 6Charles Darwin's personal pet tortoise didn't die until recently. 7The average person will spend six months of their life waiting for red lights to turn green. 8A bolt of lightning contains enough energy to toast 100,000 slices of bread. 9President Lyndon B. Johnson owned a water-surfing car.

Five signs that someone has a crush on you

Having a crush on someone can be one of the most overwhelming human experiences.  People who experience a crush tend to have a roller-coaster of emotions towards their crush. Most of the time, chances are that the person having a crush on you is subtle about their liking for you.  It can be tricky to spot the signs that someone has a crush on you. It is also good to know what to look out for if you think somebody likes you. So, the question is, how do you know that someone has a crush on you? Here are some of the signs to look out for to know someone has a crush on you.  1. They want to be around you Relationship coach and behavioral scientist, Clarissa Silva, said just being around your crush can be exciting. According to Silva, one of the signs a person has a crush on you is when they plan to make more time for you. They desire to spend time with you. Their desire to be involved in your day and world is a sign that they are constantly thinking about you.  2. They often star

What is The Best Age To Have A Baby For Both Men & Women?

According to Medicalnewstoday & Healthline, when a teen starts going through puberty in adolescence, fertility starts to rise and continues to rise for several years. The 20s are typically a decade of high fertility for both genders. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine claims that women's fertility begins to decline slightly in their early 30s and then sharply between the ages of 35 and 45. Each month, a 30-year-old woman in good health has a 20% chance of becoming pregnant. That number drops to fewer than 5% per cycle by the age of 40. Although sperm quality decreases significantly as a male ages, there is no established age-related limit on male fertility. By the time a man reaches his 60s, sperm quantity and quality may have decreased, which could make getting pregnant more challenging. The capacity to conceive may be impacted by a number of variables, not only age. Regardless of age, 12-13% of American couples have trouble getting pregnant. Both con