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In essence, it’s OK to cut down on openness in a relationship from 100% to somewhere in the region of 90% or so. And here’s the reason: some people really just can’t handle the truth. It does not make them bad people or bad partners; they're not just wired to be calm or stay sane in the face of certain revelations. There are some secrets that you should never hide from your partner especially when they could prove damaging to your relationship. Here are some of those secrets you should stop hiding: Your medical information When you get into a relationship, your medical history matters a lot. In fact, it’s one of the things that people use to decide if they’re willing to have something serious or whether someone’s medical state is too much for them to handle. You should let your partner know about chronic conditions like asthma because they will be the ones to help you when something happens. Other conditions like HIV/AIDS and STDs such as herpes need to be talked abou...

Drinking water every morning after waking up is very important and beneficial to the body. Water is the fuel that keeps the body hydrated from time to time. There is a limit to how long any human can go without water, even when he eats food consistently. 1. Aids body loss Research has it that taking water every morning burns calories in your body that cause body fat. Drinking water also reduces your cravings and hunger pangs. It also releases toxins that are healthy for your bowels. 2. It gives you radiant and flawless skin Do you desire radiant and flawless skin? Try taking water regularly, especially in the morning. Taking water helps your skin remain fresh and smooth. 3. It prevents heartburn Heartburn is usually caused by the release of some acids into the body. This is because of the acidity of your stomach. Taking water dilutes the acids and pushes them down to your stomach instead of your chest region.  4. It improves your metabolism You increase your metabo...

1.Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child. 2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ penises she’s had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard. Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She’s always just angry By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value… She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems. Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs. Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used ca...

Offenses like cheating or emotional abuse are hard to forgive, so the best thing you can do Is to avoid these mistakes. For smaller offenses, forgiveness is a bit easier. To start, say you are sorry and make sure your attitude matches what you are saying. These are some ways to say sorry to someone you hurt. 1. Not waiting too long to apologise The best way to apologize is to apologize as soon as possible. There is a huge difference between saying you are sorry an hour after the offense and a week after it. If you wait longer, the seed of hatred is likely to grow in your spouse or partner which might lead to unforgiveness because by waiting too long to apologize, your partner has a long time to think about what you said and whether they even want to forgive you. 2. Show sincerity  When you have a clash, conflict, or fight with your partner, you need to show your partner that you will not make the same mistakes again. Most times, people understand when you make a mi...

Relationships are beautiful when they are established,  nurtured and built in the right way.    Quite a number of relationships have experienced premature death as a result of certain habits that partners do not pay attention to. There are certain things partners in a relationship do consciously or unconsciously that unknowing to them hampers the growth of their relationships.    Check out 5 habits that kills relationships and the way forward.   1. Unhealthy comparison    The number one killer of any relationship is unhealthy comparison.    To make any relationship work, you need to accept your partner for who they are. Whenever you compare your partner with another person, you are killing their self esteem and worth.   2. Choosing your parents over your partner    This is a sensitive matter and should be handled with utmost care.  No one can undermine the role and impact of our parents in our...

Without  good manners and etiquette, the world becomes a rude and chaotic mess. The importance of manners in life cannot be overstated, but I’d like to point out a few of the most powerful benefits.  1. INSTILLS CONFIDENCE We gain confidence by identifying the right thing to do in any given situation—and then doing it.  When you understand basic social manners, you know how to act appropriately, which helps alleviate doubt and self-consciousness. 2. MAKES THE BEST FIRST IMPRESSION First impressions are important. They set the stage for future relationships and opportunities. When you meet someone new, they don’t know anything about you. Naturally, assumptions are made based on how you carry yourself and behave—both in speech and manner. 3. OPENS DOORS TO OPPORTUNITIES Perhaps it’s a controversial opinion, but I believe good manners can open doors that even the best education cannot.  One of the many benefits of having good manners is the unforeseen, pot...

We all wonder what makes us attractive to others. Girls, this one is for you! At the end of the day, every girl on this earth is beautiful in her own unique way! Even if they don’t admit it but men love it when women wear their oversized clothes because it makes them look adorable. Your smile. Men adore it when a girl smiles because of something he said or laughs at his jokes. Generally, women who smile all the time are more attractive to men. Your waist. Guys love to hold girls by their waist so this area holds a special place to them. Baby face? Yep, men love those chubby cheeks and round eyes! So good news, embrace your chubbiness. Most men actually dislike dyes and unnatural colors. So keep your hair in its natural state. Piercings and tattoos. Even though some men dislike piercings, most would say that they make a woman look edgier and sexier. Long legs. Doesn’t matter if you’re short because guys like it when girls are shorter than them. A short girl with long legs i...

No matter how much we disapprove of this but it is still true, men see some women as “wife material” and others not so much. So you’ll ask “what makes the difference?”. To keep a guy devoted and help him know that you’re the only one for him, here’s how to be the woman every man wants to marry. Do nice things for him. Men are usually expected to do all the hard work of planning dates and getting gifts. A man would really appreciate it if you pamper him, give him genuine compliments and show him you appreciate him. Looks do matter, so look the part. You don’t always have to look picture-perfect, we all have our bad hair days, but men love it when you’re well put together and looking amazing. Show how much you support and believe in him. It matters a lot when a man feels that his woman trusts in him and his abilities instead of being distant or judging him. Don’t be clingy. Even after marriage, a couple will thrive if they maintain their own separate lives. Men appreciate ...

There are countless ways of attaining greatness, but any road to reaching one’s maximum potential must be built on bedrock of respect for the individual, a commitment to excellence, and a rejection of mediocrity Ever since my childhood, I have always admired individuals, like Wilma Rudolph in the picture above, who were able to overcome daunting odds to become successful in life. Because of their diverse backgrounds, humble beginnings and daunting circumstances, I am enchanted by their personal stories that provide me and other readers, listeners and viewers of various platforms the evidence that there is nothing impossible with faith in God and faith in the strength of your human spirit. Although both of my parents had transitioned by the time I was 19, the most powerful gift they gave me was the strength to model a bulldog tenacity towards their challenges while maintaining a sense of personal excellence toward their working class positions. It was easy for me to understand ...