Stay away from these types!! 1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement” 2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables. 3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids 4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed. 5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls. 6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer” 7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her. 8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling. 9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles 10. Her job involves a lot of travelling. 11. She can easily find a parkin...
Relationships are beautiful when they are established, nurtured and built in the right way.
Quite a number of relationships have experienced premature death as a result of certain habits that partners do not pay attention to. There are certain things partners in a relationship do consciously or unconsciously that unknowing to them hampers the growth of their relationships.
Check out 5 habits that kills relationships and the way forward.
1. Unhealthy comparison
The number one killer of any relationship is unhealthy comparison.
To make any relationship work, you need to accept your partner for who they are. Whenever you compare your partner with another person, you are killing their self esteem and worth.
2. Choosing your parents over your partner
This is a sensitive matter and should be handled with utmost care. No one can undermine the role and impact of our parents in our lives but regardless of this when it comes to deciding on whose interests should come first, it should be that of our partners.
3. Dismissing your partner’s dreams or ambitions
If you are constantly in the habit of dismissing or finding faults with your partner’s dreams and ambitions, then you have killed that relationship with your own hands.
No one wants to be with a person who doesn’t believe in them or support their dreams.
4. Always desiring to change your partner
Nothing hurts more than having a partner who doesn’t appreciate you for who you are and is hell bent on changing your personality.
You frustrate your partner and your relationship when you always have the desire to change them into your spec or into another individual based on your fantasies and personal interests.
4. Forgetting the “Big Days”
Another habit that kills a relationship is forgetting the “big days “.
When you constantly forget special days such as your partner’s birthday, graduation day, medical appointments, anniversaries, and so on you tend to kill your relationship gradually.
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