Stay away from these types!! 1. She values education and career over marriage and relationship. She’s always throwing statements like “Marriage isn’t an achievement” 2. At age 30+ she has more liquor in her refrigerator than fruits and vegetables. 3. She can take down more shots than any of her peers at 30+ who have kids 4. She’s into smoking cigarettes and addicted to weed. 5. Her idea of fun at age 30+ is a night out with the girls. 6. At age 30+ she still insists on only dating men based on what their career is. “He’s a lawyer” “He’s a doctor” “He’s an engineer” 7. The idea of cooking for a man is a total turn-off to her. 8. She has never forgiven her father for abusing her mother, or her first boyfriend used to abuse her and she now thinks every man is violent and controlling. 9. She is so much into fashion, and hair-styling she doesn’t want to be identified as being old in her circles 10. Her job involves a lot of travelling. 11. She can easily find a parkin...
Many times, people complain of being insulted and rejected and they feel ashamed and downcasted from all angles.
Below are the simple things to guard yourself with in case you want to have some respect for yourself.
(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you: Do not go about poke-nosing in people’s affairs.
(2) Stop begging always: Do not appear to be begging always, especially when you have to choose between right and wrong. just stand on the truth and it will set you free.
(3) Stop saying more than is necessary: Do not just talk to be included in the list of speakers but talk when necessary or when asked to do so and when you do, let your speech be embedded with knowledge and wisdom because it is the principal thing to do.
(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately: Do not be gentle for too long and overlook people who always disrespect you but confront them to put a stop to anomaly becoming normal.
(5) Don’t eat other people’s food more than they eat yours: Do not always be on the receiving end but try to offer to because Blessed is the hand that gives than the one that takes.
(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don’t reciprocate it: Friendship ought to be maintained by both parties and all have to contribute to the growth and wellbeing of the union to make it work out.
(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy: Always create time to attend to your needs and wants.
(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people: Do not gossip about people but confront and tell them face to face what you have
for them to avoid being mistaken and gossiped about.
(9) Think before you talk, 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth: Do not talk people down with your words, so to avoid this, pay attention to your choice of words so that they do not connotate what you never intended or meant.
(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed: Do not over-dress or underdress but dress moderately for every occasion and responsibly so as to be addressed properly. This is because the way you dress determines how you will 99% be addressed.
(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals: Always concentrate on your dreams, visions and missions and in no time you will achieve them through hard work.
(12) Respect your time: Make out plans for your activities and do not waste time unnecessarily.
(13) Don’t stay in a relationship where you don’t feel respected and valued. Walk away.
(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That’s how people will learn to spend on you.
(17) Don’t go where you are not invited. And when invited don’t overstay your welcome.
(18) Treat people precisely the way they deserve because respect is reciprocal.
(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.
(21) Make sure you get the same energy you give out.
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